Having experienced break ups before, the signs of another can be clear as day. Suddenly he's avoiding you, not much eye contact, maybe even an unexplained tear or two. Oh boy, here it comes. Like when you see black clouds and a hot wind, you know something bad is coming. Broken and busted bad. This is going to hurt but, not for long. Experience has taught us that picking up the pieces and beginning again will be hard but not impossible.